People who try to learn how to become more attractive with women will sometimes find themselves get subtly, or sometimes even openly, mocked by other people. The issue of learning how to attract women is a very controversial one, and the society usually relates to all that with full skepticism.
After all, people just assume that “being yourself” is enough, and that if you can’t get girls by being yourself, you are probably just in that genetic camp of “those who are not attractive”.
Learning How To Pick Up Girls? Don’t Buy Into That Scam!
Nothing could be further from truth, and there are thousands of stories of men getting full identity transformation. They turn from boys to men, and this blog is exactly for these reasons – not to (although I do give you a few of these) learn pick up lines for girls and prewritten stories that you can tell to a girl for hours, but to give you tools and mindsets that will make you a naturally attractive man.
Charisma For Attracting
Learn charisma for attracting women…
Start by reading our articles on
- How To Build Confidence With Women
- How To Ask A Girl Out
- How To Pick Up Girls
- How To Tell If She Likes You
Remember that pick up lines and “fake persona” types of approaches do work, but we are here for deeper reasons.
We want to not only know how to fake your behavior for 5-7 hours and get that girl, but to become so attractive that attracting women becomes just effortless.
How To Attract Women, If You Were To Sum It up, Though?
Shortly speaking, in order to attract a woman you need to be
- Confident and comfortable in yourself
- Aware of the nuances of human interactions
Also, try to avoid listening to the mainstream tips – they aren’t always helpful, and while most of them are given with good intentions (mostly by girls and clueless guys or guys who are good with women, but who have zero ability to actually explain the process so that other less able men would understand), are quite misleading.
Here are a few mainstream tips that I find to be helpful, but absolutely useless without actually digging into why these tips are given (as in, dive deep into the actual psychology of the person who gives you these tips)…
- Just be yourself
- Just be cool
- Ask for her permission before you kiss her (women’s advice)
- Be gentle (hmm, probably guys will take this one not the right way and end up in the “friend zone”)
- etc.
For example, when girls say that you need to just be yourself, they are probably just trying to tell you to act comfortable in your own skin and not to “act up”, or in other words, “put up a front”. Just relax and talk to her… fully enjoying that moment of interaction.
Also, Johnny Soporno (a pretty notorious playboy, actually) says that “being yourself” means “not trying to be someone you are not”, which is hard to argue against.
However, to me the whole concept of “who your true self is” is a pretty ambiguous one for me – our interests change, and our values also change over time (not always, though), so the concept of “real you” is something that can probably be disputed over.
Well, in any case, scientists are not known for being exceptionally popular with girls, which means that overanalyzing the actual meaning of this and trying to scientifically explain it doesn’t contribute much to your actual success with women. And it is true – what actually matters is action. Browse my website to find tips and guidelines to how to actually become successful with women.